First, read these examples:
A problem page letter
Agony aunt letters
Then, write a letter to Carla giving her your advice.
Strict parents
My parents are very strict. They don't let me go out with my friends in the evenings or accept invitatins to parties or discos. They say my friends are irresponsible, but they've never met my friends. I don't know what they are afraid of. I can go out on Saturday afternoon, but only if my cousin comes with me. I love my parents, but they don't understand that I'm 16. I need to have some independence -- I feel like I'm in prison. what should I do?
Finally, write a letter asking for advice about a problem you have.
Task 1:
ResponderEliminarHi Carla! It is an interesting thing. I don´t understand why your parents don´t let you go out with your friends. I think that a good advice is that you talk with them. You have to explain to your parents that you need to have friends and go out whit them because friends are very important in you life.
Task 2:
Hello Carla. I want to tell you something and ask you for advice.
I stay studying a lot of time but i take regular marks. I don´t know why it happen but i am so worried. My parents are angry with me because i study but i don´t take the deserved marks. What should i do?
Sergio García Medina 4ºC
ResponderEliminarHello Carla .. I think you should talk to your parents and tell them that you are old enough to go out to clubs or parties and if they let you drink, tell them that you drink a little and head. And what about going out with your cousin I would advise you to tell him that your cousin is not going to be for you and that he also has friends to go out alone.
My problem is that my parents do not let me leave more than 12 o'clock at night and I consider myself to be a good age to pick me up later because I know what I do but at parties they leave me later but as the weekend arrives after high school I think that 12 is very early. Give me your opinion what do you think.
Goodbye Carla.
Task 1
ResponderEliminarhi Carla! The problem you have has gone through the problem that you are going through, and I know how difficult it is, but you have to take courage to the issue and fight for more freedom. If I were you, I would have my parents put themselves in my place so they know how I feel. I sincerely know that it is difficult but not impossible, you have to tell him that you are older and that it is time to change the lifestyle
Task 2
Hello again Carla! Now it's my turn to tell you a problem, I have bad behavior in the institute, most of the teachers complain about me and they expel me from the center frequently and I want to change my behavior, but for me it is very difficult, I need your help
FRANCISCO JAVIER RUIZ FERNANDEZ 4C
My parents are very strict. They don't let me go out with my friends in the evenings or accept invitatins to parties or discos. They say my friends are irresponsible, but they've never met my friends. I don't know what they are afraid of. I can go out on Saturday afternoon, but only if my cousin comes with me. I love my parents, but they don't understand that I'm 16. I need to have some independence -- I feel like I'm in prison. what should I do?
ResponderEliminardear carla
I understand you because I feel the same with my parents, I can give you some advice, which is what I use.
I talk to them and I explain that I am responsible enough to get home at a good time, or to be able to go out with my friends.
If I were you, so that they are calmer I would introduce them to my friends, so that I could see that they are very good people, I would also comment on all the good actions that everyone does.
in my opinion I think you should talk to them and reach an agreement in common, unfortunately it will be great
xxx
dear friends,
It's been a while since I have a problem and I do not know how to solve it.My problem is that I am not very good at maths and I do not usually pass exams,the other day my mother told me that since I did not approve here on February 5, all the math exams that they put me, I did not go to the excursion at the end of the course.I do not know how to do to be good at mathematics and to pass all exams.
please help me.
marta rodriguez 4C
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ResponderEliminarTask 1
ResponderEliminarCarla if i were you, the first thing I would do is tell with my parents that i feel and the problems that i have wiht them, and i need you to leave me some space to can go wiht my friends to a party, the second thing i would do is have a party in the afternoon and invite my friends so that my parents know them and know that they are not irresponsible. And finally what I would do is talk to the parents of my friends and bring them all together so that they know each other and know that we are all responsible and punctual.
Task 2
One of the problems that I have now is that my dog is bad, specifically has an infection in the urine. The first day I saw him I knew he was wrong but the second one knew what was happening because he was very depressed, he did not want to eat, he did not drink and he pumped. In the end my dog is much better, does not pump a lot and that eating and drinking more and is not as depleted as the first day.
ROCIO FRAILE DE LA CARRERA 4ºC
Well f i were you i talk about this problem with my parents because maybe the aren´t aware the problem o they think that the problem no affect you. I would explain all my inconvenences and all my opinions abuot this. I would give them solutions and i think that they will listen to you and respect all your thoughts.
ResponderEliminarDear agnes,
lately i'm so stressed because i have a lot of exams and work from the school and i don't have time for my. before I walked my dog every day and now I only do it 3 times a week. Before i read more time than now and did more things than now. What should i do?
Angela Fraile de la Carrera 4ºC
Task 1
ResponderEliminarDear Carla:
If i were you I talk with my parents about the studies and I would tell them that I should have free time with my friends because if I study all the time I haven't social life. If your parents still don't leave you get out of your house and forget your parents some hours.
Task 2
My problem is that my parents are easygoing with my free time and say me “you should be get out more” but when I will go to get out they become to make excuses and say they don't have the time to take me to the party or something similar. Finally they let me go to the party and I see to my friends and I we have fun.
Luna Espinosa Sampedro 4ºC
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ResponderEliminarTASK 1
ResponderEliminarHi Carla,
If I were you the best thing that you can do is to have good marks. If you study all the days and you get good marks your parents will see good results and i think this can help you.
Another thing is to have a good behavour with your family. This two tips will help you. Send me a message if you have good results.
TASK 2
Parents that only think in studies.
I have a very important problem. My parents think that studies are the most important thing in the world. It is true, but also teenagers need to go out with their friends to chill out. It is very important to chill out with friends to relax the mind. I want to go out without my parents saying to me that I have to study. So what should I do?
Task 1
ResponderEliminarHi Carla. Your problem is important to me but I will help you. I thing that you should face the problem and you must tell your parents. I also had that problem and I assure you that nothing happens because your parents scold you. This situation is very good because you will strive more. If I were you, I wouldn't give importance to this situation.
Task 2
My problem is that I don't have time for stay with my friends because I have to study. I would like to spend more time with my friends. I spend the weekends whith them but it's not enough.
Juan Cruz López Herrera. 4ºC
Task 1
ResponderEliminarDear Carla,
From my point of view, I understand the two ways of thinking. I understand that you want to go out with your friends in parties or discos, but I understand your parents too, they want to protect you and they only want the best for you. I'm 15 years old, more or less like you, and my parents are like yours, they protect me a lot. What I can tell you is that be patient, they will let you out more when you are older. If I were you, I will wait a bit more because I think that you are very young like me.
Task 2
My problem is that I can´t study bery well, because I have in my house a young sister of 5 years old, and I don´t know what can I do. I could go to a library or I don´t know haw can I do. So what should I do?
Francisco Librero Cid 4ºE
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ResponderEliminarTASK 1:
ResponderEliminarDear Carla,
Your parents are very strict because they are concerned about you. However, your parents should met your friends to have an opinion aboutn them. I suggest that your friends should go to your house when your parents are in the house. In this way your parents will get to know your friends and their behaviour. It is a way to show that your friends and you are responsable and your parents will allow you without your cousin.
TASK 2:
Hello Carla, I would like that you could help me with a problem.
I have a problem with the order. My bedroom is always untidy, for this reason my mother scold me every day. I would like you advise me what I can clear up my bedroom, because I don't find to do it.
BEATRIZ ZAMBRUNO SUÁREZ.4ºE.
MERCEDES DE LA ROSA FERNÁNDEZ 4ºE
ResponderEliminarTASK 1:
Hi Carla, I do not agree with your parents, you have to go out and know the world and life because if you are older, you will depend on your partner or another person (as you depend on your cousin right now) ) and you will not know how to go out alone or do anything alone. To start you should talk to your parents and explain how you feel and what you would like to do, you should also introduce your friends to know them and see that they are not irresponsible just like to have fun.
TASK 2:
One of the problems that I have, is that my parents want me to always be studying. For them there is no other important thing other than studying and studying. They let me out and that, but they are always on top of me to study and make great notes. I'm looking at them on the one hand because they want me to have a good future and have a good job but they also have to understand me and think that they do not have to be so strict in that aspect.
TASK 1
ResponderEliminarDear Carla,
If I were you I will go to talk with my parents and I will say to they that I have 16 years old and the parents of my friends let out during the time that my friends want and when they want and where they want want. YOU have to say to them:
Can I go with my Friends during 20 minutes more and when the time pass you ask him for 20 min more...
TASK 2
My parents are very strict too and they dont want that I go out until 12pm and during I have highschool they dont give to me my mobile phone and I cant meet with my Friends during the week, and they only think in my studies and in my future and they dont think in the things that I want to me
LUCAS FRAILE GARCÍA 4ºE
ResponderEliminarTASK 1
Dear Carla.
I agree with your parents in some aspects. I know they are afraid because they have a teenage daughter, and there are a lot of bad people in the world and the want to protect their daughter. However, they should be more permissive with you because with 16 years old have more necessities than when you are 12 years old, for example. I recommend you to have a conversation with your parents and tell them that I need to go out with your friends. If I were you, I’d organized a meeting in my house to give to your parents the chance to meet your friends. I hope it has fit.
TASK 2
Hi everybody! I have some problem and I need some advices. Well, next Saturday, I have a friend’s birthday, but also my cousin want to go with me to Seville because she need to buy some clothes. This party is very important for me because I’ll see some friends that I have not seen in a while, but also I think I have to go with my cousin because she is very important for me. What should I do?
Eva García López 4ºC
ResponderEliminarTASK 1
Hello Carla. If I were you, I’d talk with them. Talk with your parents about how you feel and why you should have more freedom using persuasives arguments. Explain to them that you are responsable and if you want, you could invite your friends to your house. In this way, your parents will meet them, and they will see that they don’t have why to be worried. And finally, my advice would be to be patient because you have to understand that they are doing what they think is better for you.
TASK 2
Hello everybody! My problem is that I haven’t got enough time. This week I am very busy, I have to study a lot because there are too many exams, and this Saturday, I promised my sister I will go with her to Seville and I have to have a school project finished for the next day. I don't know how I should organize me. What would you do if you were me?
Task 1
ResponderEliminarDear Carla,
if I were you, the first thing I would do, would be to present my friends to my parents, as for example, inviting them to eat in my house, by this way, my parents could know them better and have a good impression of them. Another useful thing to do would be to convince your parents to meet your friend's parents so they could realized that other boys or girls with your age has more freedom, but you have to be careful because if your parents don't agree with you, you will have to take other options and not to insist, because it would be worse, and you will be more controlled.
Task 2
Hi everybody!
I have a problem and I want you to tell me what would you do if you were me. My parents have recent given me two options to choose from, I have to choose between going to Belfast one month and a half this summer or going to Berlin next year with my friends and I don't know what to do, because I am sure that if I go this summer I'll probably learn more English, and next year, I won't learn as much as this summer, but I'm going to enjoy it more because I'll go with my friends, what a difficult decisition to take!!
José Carlos Herrera 4ºC
Task 1
ResponderEliminarhello carla.If I were you i will try to convince them saying that you will get good marks or somethings like that and tell them that they go out at this age..And if it doesn´t work you should took with my grandparents and explain my problem soo they will took with your parents to convince them.I speact your parents let you go out with this advice.
Task 2
I need some help to resolve i problem that i have.well, my brother and i sleep in the same bedroom and he always let the bedroom untidy , i tell it several times to my parents and to my brother and they don´t do anything.what should i do ? Please help me.
Alejandro montero marin 4ºc
Carla, if I were in your position, I would talk with your parents to explain that with this age you are a little more responsible and you should be a bit more liberal at the time of partying and so they would trust a little more in you and things may change. You must also understand them, since parties sometimes are a bit dangerous and they want nothing to happen to you. You should come to an agreement with them, and give them your full confidence.
ResponderEliminarI would like to go on a trip to the beach with all my friends. My parents are not very in agreement with me, since they do not think it good that we all go to a single floor. They say that we are all very crazy. I explained to them that I am 15 years old and I am a girl responsible enough to have a little freedom and enjoy with my friends this holiday. I would love to be able to enjoy this adventure with them. How can I convince them?
Cristina Fernández 4ºE
TASK 1
ResponderEliminarIf I were you I should do something to fix it quickly, as for example argue their, that you have an age in which you can look after yourself, also you can introduce your friends to your parents, so they can verify that they are not a bad influence.
TASK2
I would like you to help me to solve the problem.
Last Saturday I lost a very important family jewel that my mum trust on me. I is a ring of my grandmother. I don't known what I have to do.
Do you think that I should tell her? Or look for the ring more time and if I don't find it tell her?
MARTA HERRERA PALLARES 4°E
Task 1
ResponderEliminarDear Carla,
I agree whit your parents in some things because they only want to protect you.
You think that they are forbidding you but its only they think is better for you , try to present yours friends to yours parents and I think if they know them they can change their opinion.
You can concive yours parents whit gods marks in the highschool , helping in house , doing good things... I hope these advices help you.
Task 2
I need help , I want to buy a trainers that are so expensive but the problem is they tell me I'm so capricious because I always buy a lot of things that I dont need and later I dont use , It can be true but this time I love this trainers. This weekend I`m going to go to Footlocker and I want to buy them. What I can do? I really need them.
Eulogio García Gómez 4ºE
TASK 1:
ResponderEliminarHello Carla. I think if your friends are not irresponsible you should really have a serious conversation with your parents. If your parents were mine, I would introduce them to my friends so that they realize that my friends are not irresponsible. If I were you, I would say that you already have an age and you have to go out more with your friends and relate with other people to know new worlds.
TASK 2:
I have a problem and I wanted to tell you so that you can help me. My problem is that this weekend I want to go to the cinema with my friends but my parents will not let me go. My parents say there are a lot of bad people out there and they will not let me go in case something happens to me. What could I say to let me go to the cinema with my friends?
JORGE GARCÍA DÍAZ 4ºC
TASK 1
ResponderEliminarHi Carla! I have read your letter.I know that your parents do the best for you but I think that you should talk with them. If I were you, I would tell them that all people of your age go out in the evenings and accept invitations to parties. Also, you can tell them that why don't they meet your friends, maybe they change their opinion. Moreover, you ought to tell your parents that you are a responsible girl, and you are not going to do anything bad when you are out of home.
TASK 2
Hi! I have a problem and I want to know what would you do if you were me. Next Saturday I have an invitation to go to a football match, but the problem is that next week I have a lot of exams; so I don't know what can I do because I have to study but also I want to accept the invitation and go to the match. So please, tell me what should I do.
Angélica Díaz López 4ºC
Ángela García González, 4ºE
ResponderEliminarTASK 1
Dear Carla,
It is normal for parents to worry about their children and sometimes control when they go out to discos or parties, but I think that in your case, it may be excessive to try to protect you too much, my advice is to talk to your parents and tell them your situation, they should understand that in teenage it is normal to go out with friends, and go to parties. You could also convince your parents meeting your friends to them, so they will know that you are a responsible girl and that you do not need so much protection.
TASK 2
Dear Carla,
I have a friend who lately is separating from our group of friends, a few months ago she started a relationship with a boy and since that moment she is very distant, she just wants to meet him and now she doesn´t speak to us, we are very sorry for this situation because the whole group have been together since childhood. We have thought about talking to her but we do not know how she would react. What should I do?
Task 1;
ResponderEliminarhi Carla :
I'm going to try to help you with that problem because I have the same one, I understand that our parents worry about us. But I think that they should do less because we are 15 years old, and we should have some maturity, and we should have responsibility for our actions, be with who we are, have a personality and not let ourselves go. If those friendships do not like your parents very much, they make you happy. Follow them if your parents want to give you a vote of confidence and accept them.
Task 2:
My problem is that I need to go to Seville to see a friend. But the last time I went they stole my cell phone on the riverwalk, and they do not trust me very much. I do not know what to do, if to go without permission or to say it, or habisarle, but with the possibility of not going, I do not know what I have to do if someone could help me I would appreciate it
Task 1
ResponderEliminarHi Carla! If I were you, the first thing I would do would be to talk to my parents about the problem that they do not let me go out alone. Then, the second thing would be to make a barbecue at home with your parents and your friends, to be in shape your parents would know your friends and see that they are not bad company.
Task 2
I have a problem, my problem is that my friends tell me every day to go out with them to go for a ride or to play video games with them, but many times I tell my friends that -no-, because I have to study all the days and teachers send many exercises for home. What should I do?
Óscar Gómez Bascón 4ºC
TASK 1
ResponderEliminarHi Carla. I agree with your parents in some aspects because the parties, sometimes, are dangerous and your parents don´t know what can happen to you. I understand that with 16 years old you want to go out with your friends and have a little more freedom because you should talk with your parents and explain them that you go out with your cousin and you will be responsible with alcohol.
You will see that this situation it's going to change.
TASK 2
Hi! I have a problem and I need opinions to know what to do. For my birthday my parents gave me a ticket to go to a zoo, exactly the reserve of the Castillo de las Guardas, in the north part of Seville, but next week I have a lot of exams and I have to study so hard. Here it's the point. I want to go there because I love animals but... what can I do with my exams?. I need help, tell me options please!
Ángela González Méndez 4E.
Juan Carlos Ruiz Fernández, 4Eso E
ResponderEliminarTASK 1
Hello Carla, I think your parents want the best for you, but I also understand what you want to do. I would advise you to change your opinion, such as presenting your friends to your parents, helping them all and knowing that you can go wherever you want to be, and that nothing happens.
TASK 2
This weekend I went to play soccer and I saw some very cool soccer shoes, I wanted to buy them but my father told me it was not necessary because I already have two more.
I'm trying to converse and see if he changes his mind.
Task 1:
ResponderEliminarI think you should talk to your parents or tell an adult to tell them to let you go out with your friends, without being afraid. But you have to promise your parents that you will not do anything you can regret. So I think they will understand and you can enjoy with your friends.
Task 2:
I need you to help me solve this problem that prevents me from taking this week's exams. This week I have 5 exams but due to training, I have to visit a family in the hospital, it prevents me from studying. That I have to do? I do not train this week? Please I need help!
Miguel Ángel López López 4ºC
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ResponderEliminarHi Carla! I understand you, sometimes i also argue eith my parents for that. They have to understand us in some aspects but we also have to understand they, and that's what I recommend you do . When we go out we have to be very carefull with the things that we do and they are afraid that something bad could happen to us , show your parents that they can trust you. I did it and all is better.Good luck!
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I need some advice and i think you could help me. My father has found a better lob, but it is in France and my parents want to move there. A new school, a new lenguage, new friends...they said me that if i want i could stay here with my grandmother. I do not want to go because here is all my family,my friends and my studies, but i don’t want to live here without my parents
What would you do if you were me?
IRENE GARCIA DOMINGUEZ
TASK 1:In my opinion you have to talk with your parents like in this text.I think that you have to be sincere with your parents.Also you have to be more responsable and to give them confiance.Other things that can do is to say them the benefits and the consecuences and sayng that your parents thing that you can thing and meaby you can have more possibilities to go out with your friends.
ResponderEliminarTASK 2:My problem is that i confuse becouse the next saturday i have an important football match with my team but in the other side the same day and at the same hour that the footbal match i have a party of my best friend.I'm very confused becouse i wanted to the football match becouse is a very important match but in the other side I wanted to go to the party of my best friend becouse there will go a lot of people and it will be fun.
What can i do?
Dear Carla,
ResponderEliminarI have read your problem and I understand what you say. I do not know if you tried it because I do not know how your trust will be with your parents but talk to them, let them know that this issue really worries you, that you want to live, that you want to grow as a person and that without it you can not ... and even then It does not work, try to ask them for trust, tell them to give you a margin to show them that they can trust you, and above all, make them know that you will count on them for everything and that you are a mature and responsible girl with your actions.
I wish you luck! , a greeting.
Dear friend,
I wanted to write you about a problem that I had, in case you could give me some advice. It turns out that lately I've been thinking a lot about what I will do in my future, and they tell me to study what I like but my problem is that I they like so many things that I do not opt for any of them, I love art, it's the only thing I know for now ... how do you think I can find out what I feel better about? And ... what do you think about studying something that I like it despite what people think about it, should I look at the paths of these studies or how much do I like them?
Thanks for reading, greetings.
Raquel Ríos García 4.ºE
TASK 1:
ResponderEliminarDear Carla, you must tell your parents that you are old enough to go with your friends at night to clubs and parties because you can get bitter locked in your house like in a prison and they are your parents, you can talk to them normally.
TASK2:
My problem is that Im sad because my cat escaped from my house and I dont know what to do to solve that problem and it is like my brother. I need to solve this problem seriously becouse I don´t know what to do without my cat
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ResponderEliminarHello Carla! I know that not all parents are equal but in my opinion you should talk with them, explain your situation and present your friends to get them more confidence, and they will see if they are good persons to go out with.
I'm sure you will solve it soon!
Task2:
Hi!, I will talk about my problem, the last saturday I premiere my new sweater but when I was with my friend I broke them it and i don't know if I must tell my parents.
So what should I do?
Celia López Muñoz 4ºE
Dear confused I have read all your letter and I think that's a difficult situation but don't stress too much. Today I'm going to give you the best solution to your main problem. The first thing that you have to know is that you're too young, I mean, you're not an adult yet, so you have to obey your parents. What you should do is try to talk with them, saying that you're responsable. To give trust to your parents you have to be a good daughter and to help them in everything you can. A great idea that has just came to my mind is the next: If I were you I should introduce my friends to my parents and on this way, when your parents met your friends they will be happier and much more relaxed. These are my tips, try to do that and you will tell me how is this going on later.
ResponderEliminarDear Agony I'm writting you because my heart has been broken by my ex-boyfriend. After two years together he had decided to remove me of his life and now he has started a relation with other girl. I know that there are lots of fishes in the sea but I really love him, I can't imagine a life without him. When I see him with his new girlfriend I feel too disgusted and I start crying. I'm passing for a bad time on my life. If you were me... What will you do? Please reply me as soon as possible, I can't continue neither one more hour. Thank you
MARÍA RODRÍGUEZ LÓPEZ 4ºE
TASK 1:
ResponderEliminarHi Carla! I understand that your parents don’t let you go out very late. If I were you, I’m would talk with them and explain that you feel like a prisoner and you need to go out with your friends and have a social life. Good luck!
TASK 2:
I have a problem. Next Friday I will have a math exam and the same day I have an audition, but, I’m going to study drama art in the university. On the other hand, I am under age and my parents tell me that I have to do the text, but the audition is only one opportunity. What should I do?
Hi Carla!
ResponderEliminarHow are you? I had read your letter and I think you are having a bad time because is normal that you want to go out with your friends. The problem is that your parents are extremely strict, so If I were you I have a serious conersation with them. One important thing is to be patient, responsable and always have a good behavior and in this way your parents trust you. About the conversation,you could ask why they forbidde you to go out or to go parties If you are responsable and good girl and if they want to meet your friends you can present them. Maybe your parents have a reason of why they want to allowed you to go out in the night. I reckon that our parents are worried because nowadays the society that we live is not enough well and this is the reason that they don´t let us to stay out home at this time. However, your parents must understand that you need to go parties at least sometimes and of course without your cousin, you need your space. Carla ,be patient and don´t worry, everything came.
MY PROBLEM
I think my parents sometimes aren´t right. For example in my home always clean and tidy my mother or me, when I am not tidying or washing the dishes after eat always say something and for example my brother one day he is sitting in the sofa without cleaning or whatever and never say something. This is the reason why my parents and me argue, because I think this way is not correct. I never have problems with my parents but with this yes. Boys and girls can cleaning and I recognise that my parents quarrel my brother when never do nathing but not at the same way that they quarrel me. What should i do?
ÁNGELA COTÁN PÉREZ 4ºE
Dear Carla,
ResponderEliminarI dare to put my hand on the fire to confirm that almost every parent acts cautious with children your age. You have to understand that our parents will always worry about us. But if you want to convince them that you are an independent woman who will cause or receive no damage, prove it. Talk to them, coversation is the most important part of any relationship. And about your friends, just set up a meeting with them and your parents in a neutral place (like a park, a restaurant, the library...) to introduce your friends to them and show your parents that they are trustful people. Good luck!
Sofía
Dear Agony Aunt,
Lately, we've talked in class about what we want to study next year and which course we'd like to do after finishing high school. I want to study something related to philology, but all my friends are thinking about moving to another high school to start studying Bachillerato to Seville. I did a little research and those high schools are pretty interesting, but I'm not sure how I could convince my mother who is really pigheaded and overprotective. What should I do?
SOFÍA FERNÁNDEZ GARCÍA DE VILLEGAS 4ºE
DAVID FUENTES DAVILA 4°C
ResponderEliminarMY ADVICE FOR THE PROBLEM OF CARLA
Carla my advice would be, you tell your parents, at first you let out an hour and a half for example, if they see that you arrive at the time they tell you, and you behave well, because every time they give you more time and they see that they can trust you.
MY PROBLEM
I have a very big problem which is that I do not understand myself with my sister, we are angry all the time, we are always chopped as much as one another, I do not know if it is because of her attitude that she is a small girl, because she is always vacillating me and is very cool and I am already fed up so I do not hit him I start insulting and she starts calling my mother, so my mother scolds me or something but does not get his way and all day. That is my problem to see how I can solve it?
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ResponderEliminarDear Carla,
ResponderEliminarI think you´re not the only one who think that his parents are the worst people in the world because you think they don't understand you...It is too normal in this age and don't worry about it.
You could do two things, accept that you can't go out with your friends... or do the risky thing but at the same time the most fun. Get away from home without their permission. If I were you I would dare to do it...Try It!
Dear Agony Aunt,
Recently I recieve a meme from a friend, a meme is a video, image, etc. which is spread very quicly on internet and is very funny. The problem is that He create this meme but I don't like it...It is the worst problem of my life because if I sayto him that I don't like it He could be sad and I don't like to hurt his feelings.
I was thinking that I should tell him that it's too funny (but it isn't) and create a meme for him to make my friend more happy.
Do you think it is the best option?
AIRAM RODRIGUEZ TELMO 4ºE
Hello Carla!
ResponderEliminarI know that sometimes our parents seems to be very strict but we have to think about we don´t come with a manual of instructions.
Maybe, when they were younger their friends were a bad influence and they don´t want you to suffer the same as them.
Talk seriously with them and try to get into an agreement.
You should invite your friends home for lunch for example and show to your parents that they can trust in them like you do.
Remember that you can´t freak out, get angry with them or shout them, it will make them loose control and make this situations go wrong.
Good luck!
My problem:
Dear Agony Aunt,
Near home there´s a big field which belongs to two brothers, one of them is kind and he let us walk our dogs in it. The problem is, the other brother has some
fences because he has dangerous greyhounds who had been trained for kill all animals who get cloose to them and now, he sold a part of his field for build a
bullring and in Sunday moornings people who live near like me, have to hear people screaming and shouting for that.
Most of my neighbours came to live here because they love animals and they have a field close because they want their pets run free through the countryside
so they, include myself hate this kind of "festivities".
It´s really irritable have people shouting when you just want to study, sleep, work or just relax.
what should I do?
Lucía Salgado Iglesias 4ºE
Task 1:
ResponderEliminarHello Carlas :
I am going to give you an advice you should tell your father that you want to go out more with your friend since you try hard to study and be have yourself, if you do not do this, do it.
Also when they let you out, you must go to your house to be told by your parents so they can let you out again.
I hope that with this advice they let you out more with your friends.
Many kiss, you will tell me.
Álvaro Navarro Herrera 4ºC
Tak 2 :
Hello, I'm writing this letter because I need you to help me with a problema. I have a hard time getting to study because I am entertained with anything. And what I usually put in my room alone. I also have a hard time organizing. Can you give me some advice to not entertain me studying and organize myself better?
Álvaro Navarro Herrera 4ºC
Taks 1
ResponderEliminarDear Carla
If I were you , I would tell my parents that if they don`t know my friends they can`t give me an opinion. I would go to eat with my friends and my parents because when all be together , they will meet themselves.
Taks 2
Hello, I am Olalla and I need your help. The next year I want study in a high school in Seville ( Murillo ) but my father don’t like this idea , he said that I am very young. I am 15 year old , and I would like to go to Murillo because I want study art.
what should I do?
Olalla Munerol Trescastro 4ºE
Task 1:
ResponderEliminarHi Carla. I think you should talk yo your parents and tell them the problem you have because I think also that you haven't enough independence. I can understand that you are very important for your parents and they want the best for you, but something that I could never understand is that that protection they impose on you, so talk with them inmediately and I assure you that you will solved the problem.
Task 2:
Good evening Carla. I am writing to you about a problem I have. These days I will have a lot of exams and I don't know how to organise myself. I want to ask you if you have any method for that and if you can recommend me any one.
See you soon!
Adrián Herrera Sanz 4°C
Task 1:
ResponderEliminarDear Carla,
my advice is that you must speak with your parents, you must say that you understand what they say but you are not a baby and that you are older so they must trust more in you. demostrate them that you are a madurated girl and that there mustn't be a problem to go put
Task 2:
Hi Carla,
I also have a problem. I have fight with my friends because 4 of 8 of my friends went out without saying nathing to me and other 3. Now we are angry and divided, 4 in a part and me and other 3 in other part. I don't want this situation more. What should I do?
Miguel Ángel Carmona Parra 4ºE
Task 1
ResponderEliminarHi Carla!!!
I understand your parents but You should know that It`s good for you but you also need to have a social live too .you should tell your parents that you are young and you want to go out with your friends. Your parents will understand it and if you do your school and house work I think they will allowed you to go out with you friends.
Task 2
Hi Carla!!!
I have a problem, my sister lives in badajoz and I promised my mum to visit my sister once every two weeks. The problem is that I haven`t got enough time to study, do my schoolwork and I also practise tennis so I Can`t visit her. What can I do?
Felipe de la Carrera Rodriguez
4 C
Task 1: Hello Carla .How are you ?
ResponderEliminarI see the letter of the problem with your parents .If I were you, I would be a person responsable. When your parents ask for something and you can ,do it! In my opinion I think that your parents are people distrustful,unsafe,correct,perfections,etc. ! I have a good idea ! You should take with your parents and You say that you are a responsable person with education and respects and that You are big for think by yourself.
In conclusion:I agree with your parents. However I disagree with them.You have to be a good person and responsable.
Task 2: My problem is that the English teacher (Michael) is very dificult,for me! Yesterday I did an English exam and It was very complicated and messy .He has got a high leve with respect to mine .It ´s a big problem, I study and i do my homework everyday.My family tell me: If i were you ,I would study more.When I have an English exam ,I am anxious ,excited ,nervious , angry ,etc.
I hope to pass the exam because I study so much and It is very important for note.
David Ruiz Sanz 4ªC.
ResponderEliminarhi Carla
ResponderEliminarYour problem is very normal in teenagers because parents do not trust us. I advise you to show them that you have matured so that they can trust in you.
With the time that they take trust and see that you are older they will let you do things that you did not before.
Good luck in your problem.
I need help with the English blog, because when I send the tasks that the teacher asks, they do not upload to the blog. I do not know what can happen because I put all my effort into doing them and when correcting them, the teacher does not appear on the page. If someone offers to leave me your email to send homework or know why they do not upload, tell me it is a high urgency.
Pablo Vázquez García 4ºC
Sergio Garcia Medina
ResponderEliminar1.Hello Jose Carlos Herrera¡! I see that it is a difficult decision and deberias going away the year that comes since you go away with the friends already aprenderas also and a little enterteining mas this one is my opinion friend.
2.Hi Felipe I think you should leave tennis at least once every two weeks to visit your sister and on weekends you will play and go out with friends this is my opinion thank you!
3.Hi, Lucas, I know it's a problem. I would go to Sevilla with your cousin and when you get there, you go to the party and see all your friends and if the party is at the same time I would go to the party and my cousin to go the next day and accompany him, this is my opinion thank you!
4.Hello Alvaro I think is one of the biggest problems today of young people since parents believe that studies is the most important thing and also social life and friends is important so I agree with you you should talk to them and explain I implore you that is until you agree.
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